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Using a donor

Donor sperm & donor insemination

Also called: IUI with donor sperm (IUI-D / DI)

Using sperm from a donor – either through IUI (donor insemination) or IVF. It's how most single women and female same-sex couples start a family, and is also used when there are serious sperm problems.

How long

One cycle a month

Typical private cost

£1,250–£1,500 + donor sperm

NHS

Often after self-funded cycles

Where to get it97 UK clinicsFind

Who it's for

  • Single women
  • Female same-sex couples
  • Couples where the male partner has no sperm or very poor sperm
  • Where there's a high risk of passing on a genetic condition

Key facts

  • In 2024, 51% of donor insemination patients were single and 42% were in female same-sex couples.
  • More people now go straight to IVF with donor sperm – higher success per cycle, fewer vials needed, and embryos can be frozen.
  • UK donors can be paid only expenses (£45 per clinic visit for sperm donors).
  • Children can request their donor's identity from age 18. A donor can help create children in up to 10 families in the UK.
  • Over half of new sperm donors in 2024 were imported from overseas banks, so check the family limit used abroad.

What happens

  1. 1

    Choose a donor

    From your clinic's donor bank, an imported bank, or someone you know (a 'known donor') who is screened at the clinic.

  2. 2

    Counselling

    Licensed clinics must offer counselling about using a donor and talking to your child about their origins.

  3. 3

    Legal parenthood forms

    If you're not married or in a civil partnership, both partners must sign HFEA parenthood consent forms before treatment so the non-birth partner is a legal parent.

  4. 4

    Treatment

    IUI in your natural or a lightly stimulated cycle, or IVF if needed.

How long it takes: Choosing a donor and counselling can take a few weeks. Each IUI cycle then takes one menstrual cycle.

Success rates

  • HFEA national average (2024): about 14% births per donor insemination treatment (16% under 38, 7% at 38+).
  • IVF with donor sperm has much higher success per cycle; in 2022–24, female same-sex couples aged 18–37 had a 42% birth rate per embryo transferred.

Each clinic's published rates – compared with the UK average – are on its profile in the clinic finder.

Costs

Insemination is usually £1,250–£1,500 per cycle, plus donor sperm (often £1,000–£2,000 per straw/vial) and counselling.

Examples from published UK price lists (November 2026)
WhatPriceClinic
IUI with donor sperm, counselling included£1,420 (3 cycles: £3,600)Concept Fertility
Two straws of donor sperm£3,990TFP Fertility
Admin fee to import donor sperm (sperm extra)£780Herts & Essex
HFEA fee for donor insemination£45All licensed clinics
Full UK price guide

NHS funding

  • NICE says people using artificial insemination should be offered NHS assessment after 6 unsuccessful cycles.
  • Many English areas ask single women and female couples to self-fund 6 cycles of IUI before NHS IVF is considered, and some don't fund single women at all.
  • Scotland doesn't currently fund single women (under review in 2026).
NHS funding by nation

Risks and side effects

  • Using sperm from outside a licensed clinic (e.g. via websites) risks infections and the donor being a legal parent.
  • Multiple pregnancy if fertility drugs are used.