Using a donor
Donor sperm & donor insemination
Also called: IUI with donor sperm (IUI-D / DI)
Using sperm from a donor – either through IUI (donor insemination) or IVF. It's how most single women and female same-sex couples start a family, and is also used when there are serious sperm problems.
One cycle a month
£1,250–£1,500 + donor sperm
Often after self-funded cycles
Who it's for
- Single women
- Female same-sex couples
- Couples where the male partner has no sperm or very poor sperm
- Where there's a high risk of passing on a genetic condition
Key facts
- In 2024, 51% of donor insemination patients were single and 42% were in female same-sex couples.
- More people now go straight to IVF with donor sperm – higher success per cycle, fewer vials needed, and embryos can be frozen.
- UK donors can be paid only expenses (£45 per clinic visit for sperm donors).
- Children can request their donor's identity from age 18. A donor can help create children in up to 10 families in the UK.
- Over half of new sperm donors in 2024 were imported from overseas banks, so check the family limit used abroad.
What happens
- 1
Choose a donor
From your clinic's donor bank, an imported bank, or someone you know (a 'known donor') who is screened at the clinic.
- 2
Counselling
Licensed clinics must offer counselling about using a donor and talking to your child about their origins.
- 3
Legal parenthood forms
If you're not married or in a civil partnership, both partners must sign HFEA parenthood consent forms before treatment so the non-birth partner is a legal parent.
- 4
Treatment
IUI in your natural or a lightly stimulated cycle, or IVF if needed.
How long it takes: Choosing a donor and counselling can take a few weeks. Each IUI cycle then takes one menstrual cycle.
Success rates
- HFEA national average (2024): about 14% births per donor insemination treatment (16% under 38, 7% at 38+).
- IVF with donor sperm has much higher success per cycle; in 2022–24, female same-sex couples aged 18–37 had a 42% birth rate per embryo transferred.
Each clinic's published rates – compared with the UK average – are on its profile in the clinic finder.
Costs
Insemination is usually £1,250–£1,500 per cycle, plus donor sperm (often £1,000–£2,000 per straw/vial) and counselling.
| What | Price | Clinic |
|---|---|---|
| IUI with donor sperm, counselling included | £1,420 (3 cycles: £3,600) | Concept Fertility |
| Two straws of donor sperm | £3,990 | TFP Fertility |
| Admin fee to import donor sperm (sperm extra) | £780 | Herts & Essex |
| HFEA fee for donor insemination | £45 | All licensed clinics |
NHS funding
- NICE says people using artificial insemination should be offered NHS assessment after 6 unsuccessful cycles.
- Many English areas ask single women and female couples to self-fund 6 cycles of IUI before NHS IVF is considered, and some don't fund single women at all.
- Scotland doesn't currently fund single women (under review in 2026).
Risks and side effects
- Using sperm from outside a licensed clinic (e.g. via websites) risks infections and the donor being a legal parent.
- Multiple pregnancy if fertility drugs are used.
Sources
Prices are examples from clinics' published price lists, checked November 2026. They change – always get a written quote.
- HFEA – Using donated eggs, sperm or embryos(opens in a new tab)
- HFEA – Treatment for LGBT+ people(opens in a new tab)
- HFEA – Single women(opens in a new tab)
- HFEA – Fertility treatment 2024: trends and figures(opens in a new tab)
- NICE NG257 – Fertility problems (2026)(opens in a new tab)
- Concept Fertility price list(opens in a new tab)
- TFP Fertility prices(opens in a new tab)
- Herts & Essex Fertility price list(opens in a new tab)